These are the ties that bind

Sociology 101: I can't stand living so far from my extended family. This morning I was talking with Garland about why it's become so difficult now, after 14+ years living in Sarasota. He suggested the possibility exists because of the significant events happening in the girls' lives...and there is no family closeby to share in these times. In return, we're also missing out on opportunities to share in births, rites of passage, showers, gatherings up north. We live just too far away to be at most things or to expect people to come down and see us. The picture on the right was taken at my high school graduation in 1984. Aunts, uncles, cousins all part of the celebration.

This past weekend my mother's family had a gathering on the farm of one of my aunts. While all of their siblings were able to attend, many of my cousins found themselves in the same boat as me. Our generation is spread out from Alaska to Australia and many spots inbetween. They say the world wide web has made our world smaller, and for communication it has, but it can't replace hugs, porch talks, barbecues...

...living life in the community of family. If you happen to have that blessing, savor it. They are the moments that truly matter.